My warmest congratulations to Quiling and Marcus!!! That was a wonderful wedding... I've had a great time as part of the 'male sisters' group... But I bet our 'chief sister', guang, had a much better time than me... haha...
Wish U both all the best for ur marriage. May u have a blissful, wonderful and 'all the good -fuls' marriage.
Marcus, U better treat Quiling good ah!! She got a BIG group of friends behind her. U will definately kena from all of us if u bully her... haha
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Looking at the video clips during the wedding dinner, something struck me. No, not I am old, is I realised that I've reached another phase of my life without even knowing it. Miss Chios is our friend since secondary sch and now she is happily married. I believe next will be Zhihan, who is also our close friend from PA and Sec sch... Time really flies.
When's mine??? haha
Monday, October 30, 2006
Pole = Backbone??
Friday night... Everybody is trying to hop onto the mrt to get back home as soon as possible... The train was packed... Everybody is trying to keep their balance on the fast moving/braking train... I looked around for something I can hold on to as a support..
But ALAS!!! I was no where near the 'hoops' and ur only hope is to hold onto the vertical pole... And there I see an idiotic person LEANING onto the pole as his support while depriving the 4-5 people around him the support... KNN
To counter this, I purposely hold onto the pole when his back accidentally leave the pole. BUT he leaned back onto my hand!!! EEKS!!! Damn these inconsiderate people!!!
Cant he see that the mrt was crowded and he convienently take posession of the pole b leaning his back on the support poles??!!! Cant his bring out his backbone from his briefcase and fix it back into his body and stand like everybody else? If he wanna lean so much, might as well fixed a pole onto his back and lean wherever he goes!!! I was so pissed!!!
Then I looked around the cabin... To my surprise, he was not the only one who lean to the pole. There are about 3-4 other idiots who did not bring their backbone out to work that day...
U tired, people also tired ok?! Argh
But ALAS!!! I was no where near the 'hoops' and ur only hope is to hold onto the vertical pole... And there I see an idiotic person LEANING onto the pole as his support while depriving the 4-5 people around him the support... KNN
To counter this, I purposely hold onto the pole when his back accidentally leave the pole. BUT he leaned back onto my hand!!! EEKS!!! Damn these inconsiderate people!!!
Cant he see that the mrt was crowded and he convienently take posession of the pole b leaning his back on the support poles??!!! Cant his bring out his backbone from his briefcase and fix it back into his body and stand like everybody else? If he wanna lean so much, might as well fixed a pole onto his back and lean wherever he goes!!! I was so pissed!!!
Then I looked around the cabin... To my surprise, he was not the only one who lean to the pole. There are about 3-4 other idiots who did not bring their backbone out to work that day...
U tired, people also tired ok?! Argh
Friday, October 27, 2006
Mirror
Do u like to look at urself in the mirror? Congrats if u like urself in the mirror, cos I HATE looking myself in the mirror... I dun mind looking at myself in the mirror if I can only see the 'face' part of me (apparently that is the best part of me), but I really hate to see myself if I can see the 'whole' of me... Eeeks...
Since young, I have very low self esteem. I dun feel good about myself, hated myself even. And I can tell u that it hasnt improve much throughout the years... I feel disgusted by my own body... Be it the size, shape or anything... Its disgusting... (Lucky I still got my face)... Thats y I hate looking into a full size mirror... That is also why, my personal trainer in gym keep telling me to look into the mirror for the correct posture, but i just cannot bring myself to it... I really cant... Sigh...
Think I will regain, no not regain, have confidence and a higher self esteem if I can really slim down to the 'perfect' size...
Since young, I have very low self esteem. I dun feel good about myself, hated myself even. And I can tell u that it hasnt improve much throughout the years... I feel disgusted by my own body... Be it the size, shape or anything... Its disgusting... (Lucky I still got my face)... Thats y I hate looking into a full size mirror... That is also why, my personal trainer in gym keep telling me to look into the mirror for the correct posture, but i just cannot bring myself to it... I really cant... Sigh...
Think I will regain, no not regain, have confidence and a higher self esteem if I can really slim down to the 'perfect' size...
I'm Back!!
I'm back after MIAing for a couple of days!!! Nothing interesting had happen so far... Nothing interesting because I skipped work on Monday, Wednesday and Thursday... Haha...
No, me not PMSing AGAIN... Monday skipped cos Tuesday holiday and office nobody, then wednesday cos me could not wake up in time then thursday cos me got an interview... The interview was alright, I think I did good... But there will be a second round if I am shortlisted... Sigh.. Needa wait again...
Coming Monday got another interview, shit, forgot the company's name... Then I am going for the bloomberg recruitment event which I also forgot when... haha... then 8th nov, me going to MFA for some assessments... quite exciting sia... but I will not stop sending resumes out...
U guys out there, if u consider urself as my friend, PRAY for me to get into a job as soon as possible or if u got any lobang tell me leh...
No, me not PMSing AGAIN... Monday skipped cos Tuesday holiday and office nobody, then wednesday cos me could not wake up in time then thursday cos me got an interview... The interview was alright, I think I did good... But there will be a second round if I am shortlisted... Sigh.. Needa wait again...
Coming Monday got another interview, shit, forgot the company's name... Then I am going for the bloomberg recruitment event which I also forgot when... haha... then 8th nov, me going to MFA for some assessments... quite exciting sia... but I will not stop sending resumes out...
U guys out there, if u consider urself as my friend, PRAY for me to get into a job as soon as possible or if u got any lobang tell me leh...
Tuesday, October 24, 2006
Official Announcement
This is an official announcement... No.. I am NOT attached...
From now on, Michelle shall be my... Shopping Kaki!!! Muahaha....
yeah... We had so much fun on sunday esp at zara, making a fool of ourselves...
From now on, Michelle shall be my... Shopping Kaki!!! Muahaha....
yeah... We had so much fun on sunday esp at zara, making a fool of ourselves...
I'm Bored
I was on my way to the gym yesterday at around 8pm plus plus... I was so bored that I decided to send some Hari Raya greetings to my friends which says " Selamat Hari Raya... Haha... I very bored"... I've went out a total of 36 smses to 36 people... but I only got 17 replies... You will be surprised by the replies they can give you... I've divided the replies into catergories...
Firstly, the 'play-along' replies:
Jodie:
Haha. Selamat Hari Raya... I tom go halal de...
Haoyang:
Can tell... Dun forget to break fast...
(I think this is funny)
Melissa:
Hey! How ya doing? Selamat hari raya too! N belated happy deepavali! Hahaha
Secondly, the "U-too-early" replies:
Geraldine:
Haha u funny boy.. hang on there. its juz a public hol eve
Jes:
You are too early.. I tot is tomorrow.
See Ning:
Haha... U're early... Not midnight yet... Hows ur day? Nv go out n play ah?
Thirdly, the "duh" replies:
Kelun:
.....
(This is a classic)
Jin:
I'm sweaty enough.. Dun make me sweat
(she mean this sweat -_-''')
SZ:
... u really bored siah...
Fourth, the "serious" replies:
Edwin:
Same to u
Jieyang:
Hey don like tat. cheer up. play some games then.
Zhixiong:
Why bored? Ask your friend to go out with you tomorrow lar... I even worse, need to work tomorrow...
Xy:
haha. U nv go gym meh?
Serina:
Arh you at gym? I going back soon
(Actually i dunno whether this is a reply or just a msg to me)
Michelle:
Ha happy holidays!:)
Siling:
Heh.. How've you been?
Fifth, the "wanna-come-out" replies:
(Both from my official mj kakis, obviously jio me go do wat lah)
PQ:
Ya. I can sense.. Come over la, we swim(MJ). hehe
Donny:
Ha u wan come out then?
Last but not least, the no replies:
Apparently, there are more than half of all people I smsed chose to ignore my msg... Maybe they think I am to 'duh' or boliao for them... haha... *no sense of humor... haha
As u can see, not many people are 'crazy' enough to play along, but I really loved their replies, they managed to so called catch my 'joke' or humor... It turned out that A LOT of them focused on the "I very bored" part of the msg instead of "Selamat Hari Raya" and i think the 2 exceptional ones were from my Official MJ Kakis who will ask me out cos I am bored... And of course the most serious buynch of people will be those who chose not to waste their sms on such bo liao msg (no fun)... haha
In conclusion, my friends are 90% serious/I-dun-wanna-play-with-u kind... And I realised how 1 msg can be intepreted differently... some focused on 'bored' in a serious manner, some focused on 'bored' in a light hearted manner, but only a mere few managed to get wat I really wanna convey, which is I am being bo liao and I was having fun sending bo liao smses(or have i misintepreted?)... So people, in future, try to phrase ur sms properly so that u will not convey the wrong info/feeling/mood... Even better, talk thru the phone... Muahaha...
P.S. Selamat Hari Raya!!!
Firstly, the 'play-along' replies:
Jodie:
Haha. Selamat Hari Raya... I tom go halal de...
Haoyang:
Can tell... Dun forget to break fast...
(I think this is funny)
Melissa:
Hey! How ya doing? Selamat hari raya too! N belated happy deepavali! Hahaha
Secondly, the "U-too-early" replies:
Geraldine:
Haha u funny boy.. hang on there. its juz a public hol eve
Jes:
You are too early.. I tot is tomorrow.
See Ning:
Haha... U're early... Not midnight yet... Hows ur day? Nv go out n play ah?
Thirdly, the "duh" replies:
Kelun:
.....
(This is a classic)
Jin:
I'm sweaty enough.. Dun make me sweat
(she mean this sweat -_-''')
SZ:
... u really bored siah...
Fourth, the "serious" replies:
Edwin:
Same to u
Jieyang:
Hey don like tat. cheer up. play some games then.
Zhixiong:
Why bored? Ask your friend to go out with you tomorrow lar... I even worse, need to work tomorrow...
Xy:
haha. U nv go gym meh?
Serina:
Arh you at gym? I going back soon
(Actually i dunno whether this is a reply or just a msg to me)
Michelle:
Ha happy holidays!:)
Siling:
Heh.. How've you been?
Fifth, the "wanna-come-out" replies:
(Both from my official mj kakis, obviously jio me go do wat lah)
PQ:
Ya. I can sense.. Come over la, we swim(MJ). hehe
Donny:
Ha u wan come out then?
Last but not least, the no replies:
Apparently, there are more than half of all people I smsed chose to ignore my msg... Maybe they think I am to 'duh' or boliao for them... haha... *no sense of humor... haha
As u can see, not many people are 'crazy' enough to play along, but I really loved their replies, they managed to so called catch my 'joke' or humor... It turned out that A LOT of them focused on the "I very bored" part of the msg instead of "Selamat Hari Raya" and i think the 2 exceptional ones were from my Official MJ Kakis who will ask me out cos I am bored... And of course the most serious buynch of people will be those who chose not to waste their sms on such bo liao msg (no fun)... haha
In conclusion, my friends are 90% serious/I-dun-wanna-play-with-u kind... And I realised how 1 msg can be intepreted differently... some focused on 'bored' in a serious manner, some focused on 'bored' in a light hearted manner, but only a mere few managed to get wat I really wanna convey, which is I am being bo liao and I was having fun sending bo liao smses(or have i misintepreted?)... So people, in future, try to phrase ur sms properly so that u will not convey the wrong info/feeling/mood... Even better, talk thru the phone... Muahaha...
P.S. Selamat Hari Raya!!!
Saturday, October 21, 2006
Slimming
I believe all of u who tried slimming down b4 encountered this... I encountered this numerous times this 1.5 months...
I started gym and diet 1.5 months ago... I try not to drink soft drinks, try not to eat a lot, try no to touch fatty meats, try not to eat supper... But there will be some people who will say "aiyoh... zhen de ma?" or "bu yong lah... eat! enjoy life" or they will just simply try to tempt u by eating the food as if they are having sex...
To these people "PLEASE GROW UP!!!"
Do u all noe that to follow a diet is EXTREMELY tough? Idiots! Even though u are slim/thin/flat, u no need to diet or even though u are as fat as the hippo but with no intention of losing those spare tyres, I think it will be good to give some encouragement to the "dieter" and not to rub salt into the wounds, so to speak... Or u can just simply shut ur gap up...
But during this period there are people who are very encouraging... they tell me how to lose weight faster or to simply show encouragement.. Thanks...
One thing i must say is that i was touched by my official mahjong kakis that they did not buy any tibits for the overnight mahjong session and they bought vitosoy (the only drink i can drink when i am hungry besides water) for me in case I am hungry... This is wat I mean by encouragement... Thank u guys! I will surely treat u all to red star after i got my first pay from my first perm job...
I started gym and diet 1.5 months ago... I try not to drink soft drinks, try not to eat a lot, try no to touch fatty meats, try not to eat supper... But there will be some people who will say "aiyoh... zhen de ma?" or "bu yong lah... eat! enjoy life" or they will just simply try to tempt u by eating the food as if they are having sex...
To these people "PLEASE GROW UP!!!"
Do u all noe that to follow a diet is EXTREMELY tough? Idiots! Even though u are slim/thin/flat, u no need to diet or even though u are as fat as the hippo but with no intention of losing those spare tyres, I think it will be good to give some encouragement to the "dieter" and not to rub salt into the wounds, so to speak... Or u can just simply shut ur gap up...
But during this period there are people who are very encouraging... they tell me how to lose weight faster or to simply show encouragement.. Thanks...
One thing i must say is that i was touched by my official mahjong kakis that they did not buy any tibits for the overnight mahjong session and they bought vitosoy (the only drink i can drink when i am hungry besides water) for me in case I am hungry... This is wat I mean by encouragement... Thank u guys! I will surely treat u all to red star after i got my first pay from my first perm job...
Friday, October 20, 2006
Morning People
Wooo!!! TGIF!!!
Finally is Friday!! So exciting!! (Damn ever since Dolly from Under One Roof use this phrase, it became my phrase too... ah....)
Tonight after gym I will go back to NTU Hall 14 to DA SHA SI FANG!! yeah yeah yeah... *Hands itchy itchy
This morning I met a friend at the MRT station. This is the friend from my previous post. I dunno y leh... I am not angry or anything, but I sense awkwardness in the air from me... My face didnt not show much expression, I gave short answers, I didnt look straight into the eyes even though I knew he is trying very hard to converse with me... I really dunno y... BUT I am NOT angry or upset in any sense... I must change my attitude or else I will lose this friend... But 1 thing for sure, I dun feel as close to him anymore... Because I think (This is strictly wat I THINK), I cannot treat him as my BEST friend if he does not treat me as one... I know I know things cannot be equal, but I really wanna have a EQUAL friendship... I am going to meet him tomolo, I will tell him I treat him as my best friend and I wonder am I his best friend, good friend, friend or aquaintance... I need to get my answer...
Haha... Suddenly I feel like I behave like a primary school kid...
Finally is Friday!! So exciting!! (Damn ever since Dolly from Under One Roof use this phrase, it became my phrase too... ah....)
Tonight after gym I will go back to NTU Hall 14 to DA SHA SI FANG!! yeah yeah yeah... *Hands itchy itchy
This morning I met a friend at the MRT station. This is the friend from my previous post. I dunno y leh... I am not angry or anything, but I sense awkwardness in the air from me... My face didnt not show much expression, I gave short answers, I didnt look straight into the eyes even though I knew he is trying very hard to converse with me... I really dunno y... BUT I am NOT angry or upset in any sense... I must change my attitude or else I will lose this friend... But 1 thing for sure, I dun feel as close to him anymore... Because I think (This is strictly wat I THINK), I cannot treat him as my BEST friend if he does not treat me as one... I know I know things cannot be equal, but I really wanna have a EQUAL friendship... I am going to meet him tomolo, I will tell him I treat him as my best friend and I wonder am I his best friend, good friend, friend or aquaintance... I need to get my answer...
Haha... Suddenly I feel like I behave like a primary school kid...
Thursday, October 19, 2006
Blog song
haha... I wanna change the song playing in my blog now... I wanna make all of u all pengz!!! Ho ho ho...
But it will be a nice song... Really... haha
But it will be a nice song... Really... haha
Stupid haze
In the midst of the haze, I was in a daze
I was amaze about how they can set the forest ablaze
All burnt, without a trace --- Contributed by xiaoning
Whence forth will we see clear days --- Contributed by xiaoning
Ok... I have no more vocab liao...
Finish up for me... haha
I was amaze about how they can set the forest ablaze
All burnt, without a trace --- Contributed by xiaoning
Whence forth will we see clear days --- Contributed by xiaoning
Ok... I have no more vocab liao...
Finish up for me... haha
Think about this
Do u have a particular close friend who u lost contact for ages? I bet u do have, cos I have ALOT of good friends who just simply lose contact. Assume u have the means to contact them, what will u do?
1) Contact them, meet up and do some catching up and try to 'rekindle' the friendship u had b4
2) Do not do anything.
3) Contact them but dun meet up.
I was having this msn chat with a friend and we talked about the above situation. And he said he will not do anything because if u contact them or even meet up, u may spoil the 'perfect' friendship in ur heart, thus lose the 'mystery'. y? Because after being 'lost' for years, u may not have the common topic to talk about and u may feel awkward even. Thus this 'perfect' friendship is lost.
For my case, I will try to contact and to even meet up to have a cuppa just to know wat's going on in their lives now. How are they doing? Are they married? with kids? By doing so, hopefully I will be able to 'win' back this 'perfect' friendship.
How about u? Wat would u do?
1) Contact them, meet up and do some catching up and try to 'rekindle' the friendship u had b4
2) Do not do anything.
3) Contact them but dun meet up.
I was having this msn chat with a friend and we talked about the above situation. And he said he will not do anything because if u contact them or even meet up, u may spoil the 'perfect' friendship in ur heart, thus lose the 'mystery'. y? Because after being 'lost' for years, u may not have the common topic to talk about and u may feel awkward even. Thus this 'perfect' friendship is lost.
For my case, I will try to contact and to even meet up to have a cuppa just to know wat's going on in their lives now. How are they doing? Are they married? with kids? By doing so, hopefully I will be able to 'win' back this 'perfect' friendship.
How about u? Wat would u do?
Wednesday, October 18, 2006
I think I know...
I think I know y am I so upset liao? U still remember the birthday thing? yes that incident...
I was so affected that I did not speak to my friend anymore for 2 weeks... But in the end I still msg him to jio him out for dinner... So we are to meet for dinner sometime this week...
Before I msg him I felt terrible... I even felt terrible even after I just msg him... But after a while (a few hours), I felt relieved... I felt that I am not burdened anymore and I started to think clearly once again...
I realised that besides being sad and angry, I am also being possessed by the green eye monster... I was jealous... I am jealous that his life is so eventful... All his friends are givers... He was always fully booked by his friends, but I am not... So many people wanna celebrate his birthday with him but I dun have... I am jealous that he got so many friends who always jio him, willing to organise outings for him and to have dinners with him... But I dun have...
I am not saying that my friends are not close to me... I am not saying that my friends are not good to me... But at that moment in time, I am jealous...
But after my post of takers and givers, and some self searching and of course a good talk with my "sis nua" and "daugther ning". I realised that I am not alone and I am a giver in that particular friendship. I am finally enlightened... Now I am recovering... 70% recovered...
I was so affected that I did not speak to my friend anymore for 2 weeks... But in the end I still msg him to jio him out for dinner... So we are to meet for dinner sometime this week...
Before I msg him I felt terrible... I even felt terrible even after I just msg him... But after a while (a few hours), I felt relieved... I felt that I am not burdened anymore and I started to think clearly once again...
I realised that besides being sad and angry, I am also being possessed by the green eye monster... I was jealous... I am jealous that his life is so eventful... All his friends are givers... He was always fully booked by his friends, but I am not... So many people wanna celebrate his birthday with him but I dun have... I am jealous that he got so many friends who always jio him, willing to organise outings for him and to have dinners with him... But I dun have...
I am not saying that my friends are not close to me... I am not saying that my friends are not good to me... But at that moment in time, I am jealous...
But after my post of takers and givers, and some self searching and of course a good talk with my "sis nua" and "daugther ning". I realised that I am not alone and I am a giver in that particular friendship. I am finally enlightened... Now I am recovering... 70% recovered...
Tuesday, October 17, 2006
An interesting mtv... Quite Cute
I like this song and this mtv is very cute... My sis "encourages" me to promote her album...
Nothing to blog
hmmm.. Since I got nothing to blog, I shall think about wat I want and need...
List of things that I want/need:
1) A JOB!!!!
2) A metallic expensive looking watch
3) A belt, so that I will not show my crack to the public
4) A pair of gym shorts
5) A pair of running/gym shoes, cos I am starting to get embarrassed by my SAF shoes
6) A new digital camera
7) To slim down
Cant think of anything now... So now u all noe wat i want, u should noe wat to do for christmas, new year, Chinese New Year bla bla bla... Ho ho ho...
I wonder I will take how long to fufill them...
List of things that I want/need:
1) A JOB!!!!
2) A metallic expensive looking watch
3) A belt, so that I will not show my crack to the public
4) A pair of gym shorts
5) A pair of running/gym shoes, cos I am starting to get embarrassed by my SAF shoes
6) A new digital camera
7) To slim down
Cant think of anything now... So now u all noe wat i want, u should noe wat to do for christmas, new year, Chinese New Year bla bla bla... Ho ho ho...
I wonder I will take how long to fufill them...
I need a belt...
Dun u all dare to look away... Yes U over there... Look back here...
I shall officially announce that me, ur beloved Mr Luo, need a belt DESPERATELY... My pants are dropping... (Maybe my gym sessions work after all) Any kind souls out there can sponsor me a nice black belt with a silver buckle??
hello... Hello... HELLO!!! Anyone out there?!!!
I shall officially announce that me, ur beloved Mr Luo, need a belt DESPERATELY... My pants are dropping... (Maybe my gym sessions work after all) Any kind souls out there can sponsor me a nice black belt with a silver buckle??
hello... Hello... HELLO!!! Anyone out there?!!!
Monday, October 16, 2006
I shall TRY not to buy 4D for 7 years... Cos I just dio suayed!!!
One fine evening, when the sun has already gone to sleep, I witnessed something. Something HORRIFYING!!! Dun worry is not a ghost... It's WORSE than a ghost!!! Let me tell u my story... (Look up into the sky)
After a satisfying workout at the gym today, I felt relaxed and energised. I thought to myself, "I've had a good workout and a wonderful day in the office. And I bought a new cd. Wah... good day... Nothing can go wrong now since I am at the Tampines Interchange". Suddenly ,REALLY SUDDENLY, when I was queueing up for bus number 72, I saw "it"... The horrifying thing I was talking about... It was something unsightly... I saw a.....
A BIG, DEEP, DARK AND I-THINK-IS-SMELLY-AND DIRTY BUTTCRACK!!!!ARGH!!!!!! Oh my goodness GRACIOUS me!!! I need holy water to cleanse my now polluted eyes!!!
Ok ok... Sometimes u need to show some of ur "assets" to the public but if ur only assets are those big, fat and u-thought-it-is-sexy butts and tyres... Please please please do care about the general public and the beautiful garden city despite the haze... I really really dun mind if u show ur "crack" but please at least make sure that first of all u are slim or u are wearing a super duper sexy g string before u start showing off ur butt to the INNOCENT public... Oh yah... Make sure u clean it properly or else ur beloved "black gold" will show and smell the whole environment... And I think the haze is bad enough for our lungs... Dun make us lose our eye sight too please!! Lucky I dun see any butt hairs coming out of the very low cut jeans...
Below is how I preceived as sexy and disgusting... Not drawn to scale... And am not against fat people cos I am also fat but at least I dun show my butt around...
After a satisfying workout at the gym today, I felt relaxed and energised. I thought to myself, "I've had a good workout and a wonderful day in the office. And I bought a new cd. Wah... good day... Nothing can go wrong now since I am at the Tampines Interchange". Suddenly ,REALLY SUDDENLY, when I was queueing up for bus number 72, I saw "it"... The horrifying thing I was talking about... It was something unsightly... I saw a.....
A BIG, DEEP, DARK AND I-THINK-IS-SMELLY-AND DIRTY BUTTCRACK!!!!ARGH!!!!!! Oh my goodness GRACIOUS me!!! I need holy water to cleanse my now polluted eyes!!!
Ok ok... Sometimes u need to show some of ur "assets" to the public but if ur only assets are those big, fat and u-thought-it-is-sexy butts and tyres... Please please please do care about the general public and the beautiful garden city despite the haze... I really really dun mind if u show ur "crack" but please at least make sure that first of all u are slim or u are wearing a super duper sexy g string before u start showing off ur butt to the INNOCENT public... Oh yah... Make sure u clean it properly or else ur beloved "black gold" will show and smell the whole environment... And I think the haze is bad enough for our lungs... Dun make us lose our eye sight too please!! Lucky I dun see any butt hairs coming out of the very low cut jeans...
Below is how I preceived as sexy and disgusting... Not drawn to scale... And am not against fat people cos I am also fat but at least I dun show my butt around...
OMG.. I have a female Brain!!!
Your Brain is 80% Female, 20% Male |
 Your brain leans female You think with your heart, not your head Sweet and considerate, you are a giver But you're tough enough not to let anyone take advantage of you! |
Wats urs?
Givers vs Takers
I was having this chat with Josephine last thursday about Takers and Givers. I was wondering should I post this entry or not. After much consideration, I decided to write this post so that I can sort out my thoughts as well...
All relationships (friends and lovers) will have takers and givers. Lets start with the giver...
Giver:
This is the person who sorta "gives" to this relationship... A giver will place the other people in the relationship first... He/She will organise the outings... He/She will be the one who will listens to your problems... He/She will remembers your birthday/anniversaries and will prepare presents for you... He/She will be happy if you are happy... And most importantly, he/she does not expect any returns from anybody in that relationship ( this is what Miss J told me)... Basically a giver is someone who gives to the relationship...
When there is a giver, there will be takers...
Taker:
This is the person who takes from the givers mentioned above... He/She will be the one who goes to the outings... He/She will be the ones who will receive the presents but seldom gives them... He/She may not remembers your birthday/anniversaries but will wish you if he/she remembers... He/She will tell you their problems if they want to... But most inportantly (I think), this person is the one who will make the giver happy in a relationship...
I realised that I am both a taker and a receiver... I give in some relationships and I take in other relationships... How about you? No matter what, if u are a giver dun expect any returns and continue to give and if you a taker appreciate the giver and try to be a giver sometimes...
P.S. This post is purely my opinion and point of view... If u got anything to add or u thing is not right? U may wanna tag me...
All relationships (friends and lovers) will have takers and givers. Lets start with the giver...
Giver:
This is the person who sorta "gives" to this relationship... A giver will place the other people in the relationship first... He/She will organise the outings... He/She will be the one who will listens to your problems... He/She will remembers your birthday/anniversaries and will prepare presents for you... He/She will be happy if you are happy... And most importantly, he/she does not expect any returns from anybody in that relationship ( this is what Miss J told me)... Basically a giver is someone who gives to the relationship...
When there is a giver, there will be takers...
Taker:
This is the person who takes from the givers mentioned above... He/She will be the one who goes to the outings... He/She will be the ones who will receive the presents but seldom gives them... He/She may not remembers your birthday/anniversaries but will wish you if he/she remembers... He/She will tell you their problems if they want to... But most inportantly (I think), this person is the one who will make the giver happy in a relationship...
I realised that I am both a taker and a receiver... I give in some relationships and I take in other relationships... How about you? No matter what, if u are a giver dun expect any returns and continue to give and if you a taker appreciate the giver and try to be a giver sometimes...
P.S. This post is purely my opinion and point of view... If u got anything to add or u thing is not right? U may wanna tag me...
Sunday, October 15, 2006
3 birthdays in 3 days
Friday - Kelun's Birthday
Saturday - Edwin's Birthday
Today - Debbie's Birthday
OMG... 3 days of birthdays celebrations! That is ALOT for a week... bye bye $$$... haha
Today went to golden mile complex for steamboat. It was damn crowded and I was pissed...
We went here, they told us "oh... no seats go that side", so we went "that side", then "that side" people told us "oh... here no more seats go that side(previous side)"... I was like "huh? wata hell"... Nvm... we went back to "that side" (which is the first side)... they told us "oh... no more seats go that side... or u all go find urselves seats..." -_-"' I was like ok lor... we go find ourselves... Finally we found 3 tables, so we decided to split because we got 10 people... At first we ask her whether we can join the tables, she say cannot... then ok lor... we spilt... then I say ok lah we sit here... that that bitch said in a VERY LOUD CHINA voice "no no no... u all cannot sit here... cannot join tables..." I was "argh...." so I replied in my very loud singapore voice "we will spilt 4 4 4 not joining tables"... she just turned her head away... after that she told her colleague in hainanese "they all wanna sit 4 4 4!"... Think I dunno hainanese... I am a HAINAN!... KNS!!!Lucky her colleague noes how to do business, she said ok can... I burst "yah we are going to sit 4 4 4... even if cannot your attitude must be good right?!" I dun care if there are hundreds of people... I hate bad service... Damn them...
Anyway, happy birthday to all 3 of them... haha...
P.S. the cake from the dunno-wat-name cakeshop from takashimaya was GOOD!!!
Saturday - Edwin's Birthday
Today - Debbie's Birthday
OMG... 3 days of birthdays celebrations! That is ALOT for a week... bye bye $$$... haha
Today went to golden mile complex for steamboat. It was damn crowded and I was pissed...
We went here, they told us "oh... no seats go that side", so we went "that side", then "that side" people told us "oh... here no more seats go that side(previous side)"... I was like "huh? wata hell"... Nvm... we went back to "that side" (which is the first side)... they told us "oh... no more seats go that side... or u all go find urselves seats..." -_-"' I was like ok lor... we go find ourselves... Finally we found 3 tables, so we decided to split because we got 10 people... At first we ask her whether we can join the tables, she say cannot... then ok lor... we spilt... then I say ok lah we sit here... that that bitch said in a VERY LOUD CHINA voice "no no no... u all cannot sit here... cannot join tables..." I was "argh...." so I replied in my very loud singapore voice "we will spilt 4 4 4 not joining tables"... she just turned her head away... after that she told her colleague in hainanese "they all wanna sit 4 4 4!"... Think I dunno hainanese... I am a HAINAN!... KNS!!!Lucky her colleague noes how to do business, she said ok can... I burst "yah we are going to sit 4 4 4... even if cannot your attitude must be good right?!" I dun care if there are hundreds of people... I hate bad service... Damn them...
Anyway, happy birthday to all 3 of them... haha...
P.S. the cake from the dunno-wat-name cakeshop from takashimaya was GOOD!!!
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