Thursday, October 19, 2006

Think about this

Do u have a particular close friend who u lost contact for ages? I bet u do have, cos I have ALOT of good friends who just simply lose contact. Assume u have the means to contact them, what will u do?

1) Contact them, meet up and do some catching up and try to 'rekindle' the friendship u had b4
2) Do not do anything.
3) Contact them but dun meet up.

I was having this msn chat with a friend and we talked about the above situation. And he said he will not do anything because if u contact them or even meet up, u may spoil the 'perfect' friendship in ur heart, thus lose the 'mystery'. y? Because after being 'lost' for years, u may not have the common topic to talk about and u may feel awkward even. Thus this 'perfect' friendship is lost.

For my case, I will try to contact and to even meet up to have a cuppa just to know wat's going on in their lives now. How are they doing? Are they married? with kids? By doing so, hopefully I will be able to 'win' back this 'perfect' friendship.

How about u? Wat would u do?

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

coconut head...nah this is ur comment page. hahahaha

Anonymous said...

*laughs at your first comment* ahem.. actually i just got into contact with my primary/secondary best-est friend thru friendster and msn (1 day ago)... so happi~!

what i would do is... keep in contact if possible, no new topic to talk about also can reminiscence the good old days mah.. :p

p.s: still got one best-est friend i'm trying to find... name: serene ong from GMPS/GMSS, so if you know someone of that name tell me k!!